May 12

I had to ask some of my older women friends about this. It seems to be common knowledge that women mature sooner than men do which is the reason the reason why younger women have a tendency to be with an older man. However, it seems to be more common to see older women with younger men. So why is this so?

  1. Older women look so much younger nowadays. People say that the new 40 is 60 so 40 years of life is definitely one foxy time for 40 year old women. They look quite good and are more conscious of their health and fitness than ever before. Some of the hottest women in the world are 40 years old and above. So when you see a 40 year old woman, they now truly represent wisdom and beauty.
  2. Women reach their sexual peak during their mid-30s to 40s. A 40 year old man told me that the reason why he goes for younger women is that it’s harder please an older one – apart from knowing their sexuality and expecting it to be satisfied, older women are at their sexual peak and their sexual needs can hardly be met by the older man who’s peaking over his sexuality. I could only deduce and I think I am quite correct with this, that older women go for younger men because of their endurance and fortitude in bed; at the same time, the younger man who benefits from the learning is eager to try and please the needs of the older woman, in the process learning from their experiences and the sexuality of women which younger ones will not be able to provide.
  3. Younger men are available. How many men over their 30s are unmarried? The best of them are and so when you’re 40 and you’re single, you are presented with a whole gamut of young men and a very low ratio of older men and a tad bit of the ancient. So given this, isn’t it more probable that older women would end up with younger men? Of course, and with the reasons mentioned above, I think both younger man and older woman would have a splendid time together.
May 11

News: More female celebs are dating younger men. I think, yeah. I mean if they go out clubbing which I think they do, most of the men are like in their 20’s. Of course there are some men in their early to mid 30s but any age beyond the population is much lesser.

Funny though, here they are going out with younger men and yet, I would prefer to go out with someone older. Is it because younger men are able to satisfy the sexual need of an older woman which peaks at about mid-30s to 40s? Is it because younger women are looking for some security to the uncertain future that they have that they look for someone older? Hmm…. Surely I shall share with you more of my thoughts….