May 11

I was reading a book today and the author related a conversation between his friends and it pretty much was about how long a guy should wait before he calls a girl after a date. This was not a relationship girl-boy thing book… it was a normal book that just used this boy-girl situation as an analogy.

Now I know that there are some standards and all but I never really paid attention to it until now. Well, there is this guy that I like and he’s a hick. Okay…. A cute hick… and I’ve been calling this guy from the moment I realized I liked him… and it just never occurred to me that there seems to be rules to this thing….

Again I say that I was aware of this but I never gave it any thought as I’ve always called the guy I’m interested in. I’m in California for God’s sake.… and I’ve never had any problems… but then I realized while I was reading this book that… Hey I’m the only one doing the calling here…. He has never called me….

Which now makes me think? Does he like me? Does he think I’m cheap for calling him? Does he actually believe that I’m so agog by his cute hick-ness because I do the calling? Is it just because he’s from down there that I think this way? Or do all men think this way? Hmmmmm………

Maybe I shouldn’t call him for a week and see what happens… what do you think?